Couples Therapy

“Why did I get married?”

Marriage is one of life’s most significant commitments. Think of the vows you shared during your wedding ceremony.

It might have gone something like this. “I take my wife/husband to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, until death do we part.” Ring a bell?

Many couples come to therapy to relearn their partner or overcome obstacles that develop within their marriage. Many feel hopeless, thinking that they have tried all they could. At the same time, others consider reconnecting with their partner too much of a chore at this point.

Feeling fatigued, stuck, and hopeless…

…often lead couples to our office.

Couples can frequently think they have become caught in the definition of insanity in their relationships – doing the same things over and over, looking for different results. Or in couples work, doing the same things repeatedly and looking for their partners to change overnight.

Therapy can help break the cycle of the “insanity script” and create new dialogue amongst old characters (that’s the two of you, by the way).

Tending to the flames.

We are here to help examine and gauge the “flame level” in your relationship. Uncovering the connection, friendship, attraction, and love that made you say “I do.”

We at Balanced Grace Therapy have seasoned, trained clinicians who are sensitive to your situation and bring new perspectives and tools to assist you in reigniting the passion and love you shared.

We will take our time to learn and unwrap the layers of your relationship playing out daily between you and your partner. With that time and information, we can create a plan and teach the necessary skills to help mend what many would perceive as a “dead fire” between you and your partner.

Let’s help you keep those embers burning.

We understand that opening up about your relationship isn’t easy. It is one of people’s most vulnerable and personal spaces within themselves to come to talk about.

Yes, marriage is work, but it doesn’t have to feel like grueling work. As you and your partner grow older and life changes, your coping strategies with each other also need to adjust and change.

The embers in your marriage don’t have to burn out. Sometimes, breathing new oxygen can restart a dull flame. We can help you rebuild together. Let us help you find the path to do so.

Restore the warmth of your commitment.

Calling is the first step! Let’s rewarm your marriage. Give us a call at (779) 803-4834.